Still though, there is a impersonal touch to it all -- and while guidelines are guidelines, I still think there are better ways than being inactive members of a community who only intervene when they deem fit. Granted that being active in the community may seem to create bias... there is no real solution there either.
I haven't had the experience yet of having a thread deleted or moved that I know of, but part of being here is working with and through each other. You can't edit and filter what you don't like out in real life... I think we are risking real, healthy communication for " safe place" sometimes..
Anyway, just my take.