Congratulations, ennie! I completely agree with what all the others have already wisely said better than I ever could. Saying "No" to others is certainly not easy, but it's a BIG step forward when it comes to our own boundaries and our own self-love and self-respect. Good job! Be proud of yourself for that! I'm sure things will get a bit easier for you now. Just keep working on yourself and you'll rock! Stay strong! Stay safe and take good care of yourself! Thank you so much for making this thread! I'm sure it will encourage and inspire many other people here on PC. Sending many hugs to you, ennie. You're a strong, wonderful person. You rock! Keep fighting!