Hi,

I am reading everything that has to do with BPD now and all experiences from other people. My loved one is like this, I find so much similarities.... It really really catches my attention something you said " asked you if she somehow was noticing the bad of her behaviour and somewhat working on it. If not, go away. It’s the best you can do for you, and I’m gonna tell you, even for her..."

My loved one is not aware and as much as I repeat to him he needs to ask for help he doesn't. He just mention after the crisis how evil he is and horrible and goes into this never ending circle of being violent and than torturing himself with guilt.... but he refuses to get out of this ..... I am such a mean and dangerous person even if I told him he is not just mean =, there is something deep underneath there.