@christina and @BirdDancer, I'm also inclined to just focus on what is best for me rather than try to solve other people's problems. I have a lot of difficulties as it is and just want to make less problems in my life rather than more.

The weird thing is one of my friends suggested to me that I have allowed my son to feel free and safe to dump on me and this is what I wanted to discuss today with my pdoc. Instead we talked about my pdoc's problems. I tried to butt in a few times but he was really on a rant today. I've never seen him like this before. He usually has not much to say unless you ask him a direct question.

What I feel bad about mostly is that the government paid him a significant amount of money to tell me about his problems.