My T has this question built into every session but he also helps with answers. When you walk in you have to pick up at least one feeling card about how you’ve felt between sessions. Then at the next set of cards he asks what you are needing. There are things like rest, connection, innovation, community... Sometimes he will ask about why you picked the card and we talk about it. Other times he takes note of the need and weaves it into the session. Like the week I picked rest. He didn’t ask about it but he kept the session even more gentle than usual, slowed the pace down and was e-tea present and attentive.