It looks to me like you are doing the same sort of thing like you did with your female therapist and the marriage counselor - the marriage counselor was good and the female therapist was not. And the marriage counselor got you when female therapist did it wrong. Now it is current therapist who is good and marriage counselor who is not. That this guy is reacting slightly differently may or may not ultimately be useful to you - I hope he is.
But just my observation.