You seek validation - and you definitely HAVE IT! You need no permission to see a therapist. You need not have the people in your life approve of it. Looking for a way to manage your pressures in what is obviously an overstretched life is of your right to do so. In fact, I recommend it. I really feel for you as I - and we - understand how the pressures placed upon us can negatively impact one's mental health. So I say make that appointment.