I'm sorry that it came off as judgmental, I'm only trying to help. Like I said, I'm not a professional. I was making assumptions based on the fact that you said women will often cut communication off from you, and that might be because of the things that you say to them. Even if you are being respectful, sometimes the setting alone will change the context. Instagram, for example, is a place where women will often get tons of unwanted attention from men, so they filter out and block the guys who they think are potentially going to bother them. I wouldn't take that personally, and would try communicating with women in an online setting where they are actually looking for that. Have you ever tried using OkCupid, eHarmony, or anything like that?

You're right though, I don't know you, or your history, and I shouldn't have jumped to conclusions. Forgive me.