Apr 02, 2019 at 03:41 PM
I have mentioned this over the years in my post as it is a way of escaping. I still constantly do it. I am in all sorts of scenarios in my day dreams from savior super hero type to being saved. Sometimes I am a beautiful amazonian type warrior that has mad skills. Sometimes I have weird powers like I can telepathically talk to animals and they protect me and do my biding. Sometimes I have powers of teleportation and teleport myself to beautiful isolated locations where I have a magnificent beach to myself. Sometimes I can breathe underwater and I explore the great barrier reef.
I replay out these daydreams depending on what part is activated. My T is in them a lot too.
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When a child’s emotional needs are not met and a child is repeatedly hurt and abused, this deeply and profoundly affects the child’s development. Wanting those unmet childhood needs in adulthood. Looking for safety, protection, being cherished and loved can often be normal unmet needs in childhood, and the survivor searches for these in other adults. This can be where survivors search for mother and father figures. Transference issues in counseling can occur and this is normal for childhood abuse survivors.
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