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I understand you because my attractions are also uncommon. Yours seem to be very close to so called BDSM category. Mine are for suit jackets and old faces and slightly patronizing behavior from the other person. I don't care about naked bodies "as such" nor genitalia unless the person has that special looking face and behavior I described.

Also, my attractions are very short term and unstable; I might feel some desire during cuddling and flirting but stop feeling it at all as soon as we attempt to actually do it. So, I'm considering myself a gray asexual.