is this person a little?

could he/ she be asking for a mommy inside that she can love and look up to?

I know one of ours is like that. she wants a mommy she can look up to, though she wants someone on the outside

or do you think it could be someone who doesn't know the story about your mom and why you can't talk to her

we have alisha in our system who is 9, who doesn't understand why we can't talk to our mom