I’d not waste another minute on figuring out what he does and why but focus on why do you cook, clean and put to bed drunk man every week, man who doesn’t take you out and doesn’t want much to do with you and whom you need to pursue (he doesn’t call, text or see you enough and you alwars have to beg for more).

Why is it ok with you? Why do you consider this relationship appropriate for a grown woman?

I highly recommend you seek help in learning about your own patterns and see if it could get better in your life. Otherwise next men will be just the same again.

You are still focusing on what’s triggering him and what is bothering him. Why aren’t you focusing on what’s not working for YOU. You are still focused on why he doesn’t want you.

But why not focus on why do YOU want this kind of guys in your life? You can’t control other people, you can only control your choices. In this case choices in men