One has to move out while dividing property. Don’t say in the sane household. It makes it harder.

Do you have children? If yes then focus on the fact that you must remain civil for pretty much forever as even when kids are grown, you’ll have events and grandkids etc So stay civil for the sake of them. Refrain from being at each other throats

If no kids, then don’t live together and don’t hang out keep the distance and let lawyers deal with logistics. Then move on. If you have no kids, no need to see each other again so hating or not hating will be irrelevant. Hang in there.