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Apr 10, 2019 at 06:09 AM
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Originally Posted by Emily Fox Seaton
Well I am a giver too so... but I have ghosted before on here. I am sorry to do so but the person would not seem like the type to take it well.
For me there can be practical reasons such as, I am literally just too busy to maintain a long conversation and also, sometimes, after getting to know someone better I realize I am just not compatible with them.
Personally lately I have been pulling back. The first time my gut tells me I am in a user situation, I just drop and run.
99% of my online relationships have either been users or people that I had to drop because once I got to know them, really know them, they weren't like me at all.
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Yes. This. Same here.
I have never ghosted someone. I wanted to with one online friend, but then she stopped writing to me and that was that. I was relieved.
Maybe I should stop making online friends, but I meet people, we seem to click, then we start talking. It just happens.
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