I agree that it can be easier for some to ghost and/or be meaner online.. I wonder, would they be like that in real life. It’s easy to hide behind a screen and not be sincere
I also feel that online friends are real friends ... I’ve got to know some genuinely wonderful people online who I know wouldn’t turn on a dime... but some are so self absorbed and don’t care much ... a lack of empathy.
I’m sorry you’ve been disappointed