Sounds like a cultural thing. If your son is young, you alll still have a chance of coming together. And remember how emotional the time around weddings is. You all may decide to take a deep breath, step back,and make sure you dont do anything you cant undo later.
I have a lot of problems with my 40 yr old son. He doesn’t get my disorder and his wife is very low drama. They sometimes say of her that her dad raised her to be the boy he never had. I am definitely a girly girl. Sometimes I wonder if her family is warning them against letting their kids be alone around me tho I was an elementary teacher for 15 years. They have no mental illness in their family. I need to have some long talks with them, but we live in the next state and my husbands health isn’t good. Thanks for the reminder to me that some things are the most important of all.