Try not to get upset over this. Yes, we sometimes hate it when people say this. However, this could be natural for him. Or, if he was in fact trying to make it easier for you to fight off any transference caused by seeing him in a social situation rather than in the office by doing that, is that so horrible?
Where do you plan to move? I know you mentioned living more economically away from the States, but where would you get decent psychiatric care? I watch House Hunters International a lot. I will count on your still being on the forum. You know you are one of my favorite people. Hugs!