hi catmatch

i’m new here too and going thru the possibility of divorse, although i think i’m a bit older than you.

thats a sad story, i feel for you.

i’ll take a stab at this and say i think most men, especially under that age of 40, are for sure pretty interested in sex. some too much so and have an unhealthy sexual obsession. maybe thats due to todays sex obsessed tv shows and web porn. things seem different now rhan they were in the 1980-90’s.

i’ve known a few guys that sex was pretty low on the list.

here is my breakdown form what i can tell:

25% put it lower that other things
25% put as a notmal part of life but it foesny rule their life

the other 50% are complover sexed and watch too much porn.

i could be wrong but its my perception over the course of 52 years of life.