Wisers words have never been spoke, Gymgirl71! I'm really happy that you're finally standing up for yourself and that you're starting to see him for who he truly is! You DESERVE MUCH BETTER than him and you WILL find someone else who is much better than him and who will truly accept you, love you and respect you for who you truly are! Just take GREAT care of yourself, ok? You DESERVE IT since you're getitng through all of this! Please NEVER give up HOPE! Try to HANG ON as much as you possibly CAN! Sending many hugs to you, Gymgirl71!