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Originally Posted by sarahsweets
Do you mean he had an affair and moved in with her?
Is he back home?
what ability? I am confused. You say he has the premature ejaculation-did he fix that issue?
So do you think his issue was your fault but now its better with other women or porn.
I am trying to understand so I can give you the support you need. Did he leave you and shack up with another woman but is home now? Why stay with him if his solution or "punishment" to you is an affair? I feel the same way about porn- I prefer that my husband not watch it. He doesn't because he says he would rather think of me. But I also would never check his search history or go through his phone. What do you think he needs to resolve? If anything you guys need marriage counseling to see if you can stay in the marriage when he has cheated on you. Maybe he can explain what his issue with sex is. Below is some info I found:
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+—-I really question that 1 in 3. My heyday was the Summer of Love era before all the STDs changed everything. It surely wouldn’t be what they call a representative sample statistically, but I have encountered this so rarely that I doubt it this could be true. Cmon ladies, weigh in on this!!! If it is true I feel so bad for men because it isn’t easy to solve this. If I love someone, I still love them if they have this problem, but other means of stimulation for the woman would be necessary. However, from what I have read, other stimulation is often needed anyway. Anyway, the op sure has a bucketload of problems and it would be good to break this down as Sarah requested.