Hey StreetcarBlanche...Ok..What happened was that she was talking to my husband (before you ask, NO, she never tried to sleep with him) and KNOWING that he had a spending/laziness problem, told him that "You are responsible for all those animals, she's not....) I was like..excuse me? This is the man who can't mow a lawn, or pick up a paper towel to clean up a coffee spill, a cat hairball, or crumbs from his own sandwich making, while I was working two jobs, and later on, three. I do not know if perhaps he was feeding her a line, but the evidence was overwhelmingly in my favor.