I had to walk away from my H (finally after 33 years) It had become so bad that when I felt trapped suicide seemed like my inly way out. I knew the one diagnosis he got but sensed there was much more causing the problems & I was at the point where he drove my situational depression & anxiety far beyond liveable & my anger after all those years of dealing with him just exploded. Leaving was my only path to sanity & not to suicide.
Sometimes we gotta do what we gotta do for our own well being & make that our priority no matter what guilt anyone tries to make you feel. Best choice I ever made in my life. Several years after leaving I did discover what mental health issue was really causing the problems.