I saw the alarming amount of negative reviews of this site as well (which far outweigh the positive). Many of which went into reasonable length providing their reasons with many having consistent complaints about the site and members. And adding to that, reviews usually have good intentions to inform the public of a high or low quality product. For those reasons, I don't think we should disregard those experiences. However, until my experiences mirror theirs, I will continue to use this site since I have encountered mostly empathetic, compassionate people who seem to put a lot of time into their posts and/or in being regularly active. Im frequently amazed by that.