going to a professional and speaking of those thoughts does not apply stigma. unless you apply it. mental illness is just that, an illness, same as diabetes, heart disease, etc. to not address those symptoms is placing yourself in a dangerous situation..same as you ignored those other symptoms. I am not saying don't talk about them, but if you are that concerned to address them , then perhaps address them in a manner to get help. we are talking here about suicidal thoughts. original poster sounded concerned enough to bring the issue up, I just felt that it meant addressing it with professionals who could apply actual resources to the situation..just as they would if it were other serious medical concerns.