This sounds like my ex! It’s psychological abuse. He did it when we were together. How ambitious he is, his plans for his future, how great a shape he in and when he goes to the gym he goes in HARD, how he is going to be a millionaire one day and has such high standards..I mean everytime we were on the phone..I had to roll my eyes lol..he went to the gym 6 times in 5 months..such a gym rat he is lol