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Originally Posted by Quarter life
Break ups are hard. Having our belongings returned or retrieving them is one of the niggling things that can either expedite or prolong..... or even prevent closure. I think if it were me, I would contact the ex and arrange a specific time for him to drop off or for you to retrieve your belongings. Should you feel uncomfortable seeing your ex again, its probably wise to have a friend with you to mediate the exchange. Allowing too much time to go by will only make it harder...and I fear if you wait too long you may never get your belongings back.
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I am getting it this weekend..it’s going to be awkward but I’m just going to be like thanks, take care..I don’t want a hug from him. If he tries, I’m going to tell him I’m not comfortable doing that...I don’t like the cruel things he says to me and I won’t hold a grudge, but I think he misrepresented himself big time