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Originally Posted by Earthmama
Hello,
I am quite desperate and confused which is why I have come here to seek advice. I recently discovered that my husband has (what I think is) a belly expansion fetish. His porn searches include belly expansion, bbw expansion, weight gain, bbw trying on tight clothes, and similar topics. He doesn’t know I have seen these and I am not sure whether or not to tell him I have.
At the same time, he is slowly but surely encouraging me to gain weight. The comments started a few months ago and he’s gaining more confidence in what he tells me to do. It started with, I love your curves. Then, eat a spoonful of peanut butter to make your *** bigger. Then eventually he asked me to eat a whole carton of ice cream. A few days later, he bought me a dozen donuts and challenged me to eat them all. He clearly wants me to gain weight.
On the one hand, I want to please him and gain weight, but on the other hand I feel like this is all unhealthy. I have gained some weight and in some ways I like it, but in other ways I feel like I’m being judged by friends and family and I look like I’m “letting go”. I have always been in great shape and had an athletic body. Now I am definitely chubbier than I have ever been. He loooooves it. He loves to see me gain weight and try on tight clothes. He gets extremely turned on which subsequently turns me on.
What confuses me most is his belly expansion porn viewing. Where does this come from? Will I ever truly satisfy him with my minor weight gain compared to the massive weight gain he watches in porn? How do I confront him about this without embarrassing him?!
Please share your experiences with this from any perspective. I want to understand this belly expansion fetish because i just don’t get it.
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Sounds like he's a chubby chaser. He's obviously not the only one, since there are so many videos online just for that. There's no explanation for it, he just likes what he likes. It's the same with people with foot fetishes or whatever. The point is he's very attracted to you and loves you, and you get to chow down on delicious food while your sex life gets better. Seems like a win-win to me!
The women he's seeing in porn aren't real, and you shouldn't feel the need to compete with them. The same goes for women who find their husbands watching porn videos featuring blonde bombshells with humongous boobs and tons of collagen in their faces. It's just a fantasy and he's not comparing you to them.
As far as confronting him about the porn, there is no right way to do it without embarrassing him, so I would ignore it. As far as the fetish goes, maybe you can just ask him why he's into you being a lot curvier lately compared to before. You said that you had an athletic body when you met him and he was obviously into that. Ask him what changed?