View Single Post
TheNightWhistle
Member
 
TheNightWhistle's Avatar
 
Member Since Mar 2019
Location: Montreal
Posts: 117
5
44 hugs
given
Default Apr 17, 2019 at 08:55 PM
 
Quote:
Originally Posted by Fuzzybear View Post
I often feel suicidal. Every day to varying degrees

I can’t take meds (severe allergies)

I was posting about how I was feeling and someone replied accusing me of “attention seeking” and in a really nasty way (Not anyone here)

I wish people could look for the best in people and not jump to judge others...

I guess it’s a sign of unhappiness and insecurity when people are cruel and labelling,,

I don’t bear a grudge against this person but .. why me? I wasn’t “seeking attention” as I don’t play mind games. I was genuinely needing support, I was in “crisis” even, but this person seemed to want to hurt me.

Most people who have known me for any length of time know I try to be kind

That is all any of us can do

Try to be kind

I've learned that I can't take anything people do personally. Whenever somebody says something offensive, or does something to hurt others, it's a reflection of them and how they perceive the world, not you. Brush it off and delete this person on whatever platform you had them on. You don't need that negativity in your life.

__________________
"If you don't like something, change it, and if you can't change it, change your attitude." - Maya Angelou
TheNightWhistle is offline   Reply With QuoteReply With Quote
 
Hugs from:
MickeyCheeky
 
Thanks for this!
Fuzzybear, MickeyCheeky