Do you two have means to support yourself? Do you two have a job? If not, how are you paying bills? Are you two on disability? I wonder if being married would make disability payments less? Where are you two going to live? Can you afford rent? Are you in subsidized housing? Would you qualify for it? I am not saying you have to answer these questions here, but all these things should be looked at and discussed with your fiancée before tying a knot. I hope it is all discussed and is under control