Unfortunately I'm not the type that backs down or flees. I'm not smart that way. This guy is twice my size and could snap my neck just like that. Still I trust my own aggression in handling him. I know I need to learn other ways of coping. Just don't know how.
Whether this guy is a real danger we've really discussed, and my friend has calmed down and think he's all talk and not a bad person for real. I never thought he'd show, but he can still make my life a living hell. But when I think of it, I make the opposite judgment from my friend, if someone would show up ever, it would be this guy. He is different from other trolls. Also he feels he has everything right, he doesn't pretend, he really thinks I have done bad things to him that never happened.
Today when I brought it up, my friend just went HUH? I guess he already forgot the whole situation. That's good. He was super anxious before.
Thing is we chatted in the same chat for two years on a daily basis, and he knows way too much about me. I hope he's not smart turning some of that stuff against me.
This is probably the end of it, but if stuff continues, at least I have a police file to build on.