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Originally Posted by TishaBuv
Why does so much of everything become like a game? Great point, OE! I don’t want to play games. Other people too often start the games. Then this causes me to think way too much about what they have up their sleeve and try to stop them from doing me or my loved ones harm. I am way too often on the defense!
Maybe thats not true. It’s not too often. It’s just this one incident that has me reeling and I got a little triggered.
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People play games because when they get a rise out of others it gives them a sense of power. You have been played so much that it's going to take time for you to gradually learn how to stop playing their game.
When I read that in the link I presented, I immediately thought of you. And especially when it said "you can't win with narcissists". You have talked about that.