Thank you for your reply. I think you are right not bring up the porn; it won’t really accomplish anything. And maybe I should try to enjoy this a little more than worrying so much about it!

When I have asked him about my thinner body when we met, he said he has always loved my body and I will look good no matter what. Though that it is flattering and I somewhat believe him, the influence from him to gain weight is gradually getting stronger. I guess I worry when the line could be crossed, and what that line is.