I married because it was the socially acceptable thing to do and I didn't think twice about it. My parents were married until death did them part. I was ready to stay married no matter what. Unfortunately my husband did not have the same belief. His parents were in a second marriage. My husband chose the divorce. I know many couples who agree to stay married. I wanted that too. Not romantic love but love changes over time in marriage. That's been my experience. Choose carefully.