Ok , I want to thank everyone for their responses. You all seem to agree with ME. The reason I asked everyone is that people are always telling me that I am all sharp edges and caustic, without the ability to forgive. Interesting that the people who say these things to me are usually ones that have done me wrong. The truth is...I CAN forgive, if it an honest mistake or if someone else has their hand at a persons back for the moment of the wrongdoing, or something similar. But I am sorry, THIS is not something I can easily forgive.