He isn’t the kind of man to give you respect. You don’t go to bakery to buy veggies right? And you don’t get mad at Baker for not selling veggies right? Because you know they are not selling them.

But you repeatedly go to a drunk and abusive man’s house, who isn’t interested in actually properly dating you, and you are expecting to be treated with love and respect and him to have a nice relationship with you. If you want to be treated with respect, you go for a respectful man.

The issue isn’t that this man wasn’t giving you respect, the issue is that these men aren’t the type to give anyone any kind of respect. You have to go for higher quality men if you want nicer treatment. You can’t control how these men treat you but you can control who you date.

I still feel that you aren’t understanding true issue yet so hopefully therapist cd. help you