Adolized? I doubt it. I so not T was very impressed with aspects of my life but I doubt she idolized it. There were things about my husbands and my relationship that was contrary to much of what is recommended. Once I told her it worked for us (our communication style, being overly protective, etc) she told me she had never been able to her a relationship to last 3 years and hubby and I had been together over 20 years so who was she to say it was wrong. She also was very amazed by the nature of my friendships and that I enjoyed and frequently has large groups of people at our home for parties, bbqs etc.