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Originally Posted by TheNightWhistle
You've all made some really great points. After reading them, that confirms that I don't have many genuine relationships  I do have a couple of very good friendships, so it's not completely hopeless for me but it makes me sad to realize that people have been using me for most of my life. A worse realization is that all of these people thought that I was pathetic enough to take advantage of. |
They can’t take advantage of you, if you don’t let them. You may be too accommodating, so people start to ask more of you, then you feel used. It’s about boundaries.
There are people I’ve met who are just nervy and others who aren’t. Are you enabling the nervy people?