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Default Apr 21, 2019 at 11:16 PM
 
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Originally Posted by Earthmama View Post
Thank you for your reply. I think you are right not bring up the porn; it won’t really accomplish anything. And maybe I should try to enjoy this a little more than worrying so much about it!

When I have asked him about my thinner body when we met, he said he has always loved my body and I will look good no matter what. Though that it is flattering and I somewhat believe him, the influence from him to gain weight is gradually getting stronger. I guess I worry when the line could be crossed, and what that line is.
If he's into you no matter what, then you shouldn't have to make yourself gain weight just to please him. Set boundaries on how much weight you're willing to gain. It's more important that you love the way you look and feel more than your husband.

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