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Originally Posted by bunnyhabit
your hubby trying to force you to be unattractive may be more jealousy driven than a fetish. do other men compliment you in front of your husband? you should stand tall and avoid this abuse. once you fattening up he will push for more liberties to change your self image and beliefs. this is a test of your self esteem and values. I am sure you would be uncomfortable asking him to lose weight for your enjoyment
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Thank you for your reply. I have wondered that myself. Is he making me fat so that I can appear less attractive to other men? I’m not sure this is the case because I know he is seriously turned on by thick women. It may go ever deeper, however, that the attraction is imbedded in the control aspect of making someone gain weight. I wonder if it is me being chubby that turns him on or if it is the act of making me gain weight that turns him on.