I’ve been married to Papa bear for more than 12 years. He says I’m kind, smart, thoughtful, creative, empathic to others and have a good sense of humour.

But family and some others have said and shown me repeatedly that they do not respect me or care. They have called me names, ugly, stupid, useless, repeatedly. Including parental units.

Maybe papa bear is wrong....

Maybe I am the terrible person the Narcisists in my life have always painted me as