Hello, everyone,

Hoping to get some advice on how to live life post-break-up. One of the reasons for my break-up was to "find myself again," to not automatically include thoughts of my ex in daily life, and to heal myself from all the stuff I've tolerated the past few years.

Although my ex and I are still friendly, I've been trying to figure out how much time I really want to spend with him, going forward.

I am not mad or bitter towards my ex, but I do seem to relate to this song quite a bit: Tame Impala - "List of People (To Try and Forget About)

One of my ideas is to make a playlist full of songs that I have NO association with my ex. It's also been nice to watch TV on my own, which is something we used to do together all the time.

Please share your ideas on activities I could do to try and move on, songs you think might help, etc. I'm hoping this thread can be a resource for others who are struggling with the same thing.