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Originally Posted by TheNightWhistle
I think that this comes down to a deeper issue I have. I think that I'm worried that if I don't put out, then I won't be interesting enough for the guy to keep around. I don't think I'm charming, funny or cool enough to fall in love with, so I just have sex as a way to make sure that they have a good time with me. Maybe I need to learn how to love myself before somebody else can love me.
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Now you’ve touched on two different issues. The first is putting out too soon. The second is self doubt. You do want someone in your life who loves you and who you love and have every right to that.
Maybe it will help to take inventory of your self. Make a list of all the qualities you have and of all the qualities you want in a mate.