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Default Apr 25, 2019 at 07:52 AM
 
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Originally Posted by golden_eve View Post
I feel slightly invalidated.m by some of the comments. I know you’re all trying to help. I feel uncomfortable, ok? I’ve met this group of women before. Yes I can step out of my comfort zone but for me I just feel a lot older than this group and not in the same bracket.. It’s not comfortable for me. Period. I am uneasy about it. Maybe it’s social anxiety I don’t know.
How about you try this: RSVP Yes but either in the formal response or a follow up call or email you let her know that you have a previous engagement scheduled (party, baby shower-whatever) so you are only able to stay two hours or pick a time-like 2pm. This was no one can say you didnt go and talk smack about you and you are made too uncomfortable for too long/

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