How to let go? I'm afraid that time is the only true healer in this situation. It's still too fresh and probably it could have been a tiny bit easier for you if you would have gotten some closure. Although it probably would not have helped much if when looking into this termination from your point of view, it's hard to make sense of that. It's not that I think the therapist necessarily did anything wrong when her sense of being invaded was so strong but just that for any termination that comes suddenly and where you are completely powerless and have no position to re-negotiate the relationship it might be very hard for people to start to make sense of it.

I believe the hope to see her also diminishes with time. I don't know any way how to just get rid of such hope. Who knows how long it will take but I don't think it's never going to happen. Every day brings you a step closer to the situation where you will be free from this jumble.