Hi NoWinners. I don't think I'm obsessing. It took me until recently to even be able to admit it was bothering me. Also, I do have friends and a life. I have many connections with others and I felt I used to have a rich life that was beginning to have meaning. I think this thing with him, has sort of sapped me of my own energy.

I do still want him in my life. I like him! but yeah a break may be good. I probably won't make my decision here on the forum though.