As far as I am aware I do not have an eating disorder. I've seen many professionals able to diagnose that type of thing. I do not and never have had an eating disorder diagnosis. My emotional eating started a few weeks ago, and I directly relate it to this situation. No, I don't think I'm trying to gain weight so he will leave me.

I'm sorry that you experienced that - violence and abuse in your childhood, as well as abuse in some of your relationships. That sounds awful. Be proud, it sounds like you've overcome a lot! You seem like you're in a good place.