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Blackice1993
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Member Since: Apr 2019
Location: Aruba
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Default Apr 27, 2019 at 06:45 AM
 
Wow, you made me feel like I was reading a post made by my past self since that's exactly how I used to be. Sounds like you have a bad case of self-abandonment. Do you tend to be a people pleaser? Always putting others needs before your own? How was your childhood like? If you're willing to share some details that is, you don't have to.

Usually, if you grew up in an environment where you had to please some parental figure in order to get love, you end up learning to abandon yourself, and you grow up to be fearful of losing others' love, and approval. I actually posted an article on my blog that gives some tips on overcoming this faulty behavioral pattern. I pretty much wrote it to help others going through the same thing I had gone through. Hope it helps a bit.

The Authentic You: Self-Abandonment And Self-Validation

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Want some tips on overcoming low-self esteem, Childhood Emotional Neglect or improving yourself? Check my blog!

https://authenticyou93.blogspot.com/
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