No paying job here but I'll gripe anyway. I am recovering from rotator cuff surgery and am doing great, PT is going great, awesome mobility no pain meds needed anymore. I still have to be mindful of what I do because I do not want to F anything up. Yesterday I couldnt take the dishes anymore- I had to do them, then the counters. I mopped half the floor because people had to keep using the other part of it going in and out the back. I did some wash. I baked cookies. I ran the vacuum and the stove- oh my did it need to be cleaned. I did great-very productive. But hubby came home from OT and had to work in the yard and hardly noticed and neither did the kids. Like a baby I wanted praise for doing all that in spite of my surgery. I didnt hurt myself so no martyr business here I just felt unappreciated even though I know I am not. It was all totally me and not them.