I’m not sure I can help, but feel compelled to respond, just to put in my opinion, regarding labels....I personally don’t recommend this, I don’t think it’s healthy for people/anything else to employ labelling. However, I know the importance of how/why labels are. I relate so, so much, to your androgyny. I too, am very confused about my sexuality (and am a great deal older!) for what it’s worth, keep on being yourself x