Honestly Fuzzy, I just got told I was a horrible person by my sister who has been horrible to me and she never liked people that did not submit to her need for control. Every person who challenges her is a horrible person. It can be very triggering to hear these very negative comments.

Thing is Fuzzy, don't believe these nasty things toxic people say. I know it hurts and it can "feel" like you must have done something wrong to be on the receiving end of mean statements, I struggle with that one myself. However, it's important to realize that a nice person would not say those things and a toxic person says them because THEY have problems and feel inferior and need to put others down so they can feel power.